Betrayal Trauma Recovery & Neurodiverse Marriage

A heartfelt conversation on betrayal trauma recovery, healing after infidelity, and navigating a neurodiverse marriage with Dr. Mary & Shauna Meek.

MHNRN | Apple Podcasts | Spreaker | Episode #28

In this episode of The Dr. Mary Podcast, I sit down with certified coach Shauna Meek for a raw and real conversation about betrayal trauma recovery, navigating a neurodiverse marriage, and finding healing after infidelity.

Shauna opens up about her journey—the pain of infidelity, the unexpected discovery of her husband’s autism diagnosis, and the path to real healing.

If you’re struggling with betrayal, feeling lost in a neurodiverse marriage, or just looking for hope, this episode is for you. We’re having an honest conversation filled with encouragement and practical steps to help you move forward.

SHOW NOTES:

  • [00:00] Welcome guest Shauna Meek, a certified professional coach specializing in betrayal trauma and neurodiverse relationships. Get ready for an honest and vulnerable discussion about Shauna’s personal journey.

Healing After Infidelity & Navigating a Neurodiverse Marriage

  • [02:10] Shauna shares her story, including her marriage, coaching career, and how her personal experience led her into helping others navigate betrayal trauma and neurodiverse relationships.

The Journey Begins:

  • [04:30]  Dr. Mary and Shauna connected through a mutual friend Dr. Stephanie Holmes. Shauna begins sharing her marriage story, highlighting the early struggles in communication and relationship dynamics.
  • [06:15] Shauna describes meeting her husband, Kevin, their engagement, and the turbulence that marked the early years of their marriage. Kevin’s abrupt decision to divorce after three years left Shauna devastated, but this period led her to a deep personal faith journey.

Betrayal Trauma Recovery: Finding Strength & Hope

  • [12:45] Three years after their divorce, Kevin reached out with a heartfelt letter, asking for another chance. Shauna, hesitant but prayerful, agrees to date again. They eventually remarry, finding redemption but still facing underlying issues in communication.
  • [18:20] When Shauna discovered that Kevin had been unfaithful multiple times over two years, she was hearbroken and had to deal with the trauma of that revelation, Kevin’s decision to enter recovery, and her own decision to choose healing. Dr. Mary highlights the importance of choosing healing over simply reacting to betrayal.

How a Neurodiverse Marriage Impacts Healing After Infidelity

  • [25:00] An Autism Diagnosis was the missing piece that helped change the direction of their marriage: Even after years of recovery, something still felt unresolved. In 2022, Kevin was diagnosed with autism at 50. This revelation reframed their entire relationship, providing clarity on past struggles and offering a new path for understanding and growth.

Final Thoughts and a Way Forward

  • [30:40] Shauna shares words of encouragement for those going through betrayal trauma or navigating neurodiverse marriages. She reassures listeners that healing is possible and resources are available. Dr. Mary emphasizes the importance of seeking support and finding a path forward.

It was a pleasure to connect with [Shauna for her openness and willingness to share her story. Her story  reminds listeners that they are not alone and encourages them to reach out, access resources, and take steps toward healing.

Thanks for joining us!

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Dr Mary Coaches Marriages, Parents, Neurodiverse People of Color, Autism, & ADHD diagnosis for a fulfilling life.

HEY SIS!

As a devoted pediatrician, specializing in neurodevelopmental disorders, my focus is on guiding and supporting families who have received an autism or ADHD diagnosis.

I am a PCCI trained life and leadership coach.

– Dr Mary